
Becoming a Man: Half a Life Story
#366 of 3,809 books · #164 in Biography & Memoir
Won the National Book Award for Nonfiction (1992).
Becoming a Man won the National Book Award. Paul Monette grew up all-American, Catholic, overachieving . . . and closeted. As a child of the 1950s, a time when a kid suspected of being a "homo" would routinely be beaten up, Monette kept his secret throughout his adolescence. He wrestled with his sexuality for the first thirty years of his life, priding himself on his ability to "pass" for straight. The story of his journey to adulthood and to self-acceptance with grace and honesty, this intimate portrait of a young man's struggle with his own desires is witty, humorous, and deeply felt. Before his death of complications from AIDS in 1995, Monette was an outspoken activist crusading for gay rights. Becoming a Man shows his courageous path to stand up for his own right to love and be loved.
- Publisher
- Open Road Media
- ISBN-13
- 9781480473867
- Genre
- Topics
- Coming out and gay identityLGBTQ rights and activismGrowing up closeted in postwar America
Awards
- National Book Award for NonfictionWonMajor(1992)
Other awarded books from Paul Monette
- Borrowed Time: An AIDS Memoir (1988)0 wins · 4 score
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