
I'll Tell You When I'm Home: A Memoir
Hala Alyan
After a decade of yearning for parenthood, years marked by miscarriage after miscarriage, Hala Alyan makes the decision to use a surrogate. In this charged time, she turns to the archetype of the waiting woman--the Scheherazade who tells stories to ensure another dawn--to confront her own narratives of motherhood, love, and inheritance. As her baby grows in the body of another woman, in another country, Hala finds her own life unraveling: a husband who wants to leave; the cost of past traumas and addictions threatening to resurface; the city of her youth, Beirut, on the brink of crisis. She turns to family stories and communal myths: of grandmothers mapping their lives through Palestine, Kuwait, Syria, Lebanon; of eradicated villages and invading armies; of places of refuge that proved only temporary; of men that left and women that stayed; of the contradictions of her own Midwestern childhood, and adolescence in various Arab cities.
- Publisher
- Simon and Schuster
- ISBN-13
- 9781982182588
- Genre
- Topics
- Motherhood and surrogacyPalestinian and Arab diaspora identityFamily history and generational trauma
Awards
- Pulitzer Prize for Memoir or AutobiographyShortlistedMajor(2026)
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