
When Death Takes Something from You Give It Back: Carl's Book
Naja Marie Aidt, Denise Newman (tr.)
When Death Takes Something from You Give It Back: Carl's Book
Naja Marie Aidt, Denise Newman (tr.)
When Death Takes Something From You Give It Back was shortlisted for the Kirkus Review Awards for Non-Fiction and longlisted for the National Book Awards for Translated Literature. In March 2015, Naja Marie Aidt's 25-year-old son, Carl, died in a tragic accident. When Death Takes Something From You Give It Back is about losing a child. It is about formulating a vocabulary to express the deepest kind of pain. And it's about finding a way to write about a reality invaded by grief, lessened by loss. Faced with the sudden emptiness of language, Naja finds solace in the anguish of Joan Didion, Nick Cave, C.S. Lewis, Mallarmé, Plato and other writers who have suffered the deadening impact of loss. Their torment suffuses with her own as Naja wrestles with words and contests their capacity to speak for the depths of her sorrow. This palimpsest of mourning enables Naja to turn over the pathetic, precious transience of existence and articulates her greatest fear: to forget. The insistent compulsion to reconstruct the harrowing aftermath of Carl's death keeps him painfully present, while fragmented memories, journal entries and poetry inch her closer to piecing Carl's life together. Intensely moving and quietly devastating, this is what is it to be a family, what it is to love and lose, and what it is to treasure life in spite of death's indomitable resolve.
- Publisher
- Hachette UK
- ISBN-13
- 9781787475359
- Genre
- Topics
Awards
- Kirkus Prize for NonfictionShortlisted(2019)
Other awarded books from Naja Marie Aidt, Denise Newman (tr.)
Naja Marie Aidt, Denise Newman (tr.) has no other awarded or shortlisted books yet.
If you liked When Death Takes Something from You Give It Back: Carl's Book, you could also like these

Things in Nature Merely Grow
Yiyun Li
2 wins · 28 score

Fi: A Memoir of My Son
Alexandra Fuller
0 wins · 4 score

The Day That Went Missing: A Family's Story
Richard Beard
0 wins · 4 score

When Breath Becomes Air
Paul Kalanithi
0 wins · 4 score

Memorial Drive: A Daughter’s Memoir
Natasha Trethewey
1 win · 9 score

The Undertaking: Life Studies from the Dismal Trade
Thomas Lynch
0 wins · 4 score

Memorial Days
Geraldine Brooks
0 wins · 4 score

The Unclaimed: Abandonment and Hope in the City of Angels
Pamela Prickett and Stefan Timmermans
0 wins · 2 score

The Undying: Pain, Vulnerability, Mortality, Medicine, Art, Time, Dreams, Data, Exhaustion, Cancer, and Care
Anne Boyer
1 win · 12 score

Turning Stones: My Days and Nights with Children at Risk
Marc Parent
0 wins · 3 score

A Farewell To Gabo And Mercedes: A Son's Memoir of Gabriel García Márquez and Mercedes Barcha
Rodrigo Garcia
0 wins · 4 score

Another Day in the Death of America: A Chronicle of Ten Short Lives
Gary Younge
1 win · 5 score

The Light of the World
Elizabeth Alexander
0 wins · 8 score

Writing to Save a Life: The Louis Till File
John Edgar Wideman
0 wins · 4 score

The Suicide Index: Putting My Father's Death in Order
Joan Wickersham
0 wins · 4 score
Similar Topics

Fi: A Memoir of My Son
Alexandra Fuller
0 wins · 4 score
Grief and lossDeath of a child
Things in Nature Merely Grow
Yiyun Li
2 wins · 28 score
Grief and loss
H is for Hawk
Helen Macdonald
1 win · 23 score
Grief and loss
The Year of Magical Thinking
Joan Didion
1 win · 16 score
Grief and loss
Memorial Drive: A Daughter’s Memoir
Natasha Trethewey
1 win · 9 score
Grief and loss
The Iceberg
Marion Coutts
0 wins · 8 score
Grief and loss
The Light of the World
Elizabeth Alexander
0 wins · 8 score
Grief and loss
The Smallest Lights in the Universe
Sara Seager
1 win · 8 score
Grief and loss
A Heartbreaking Work of Staggering Genius
Dave Eggers
0 wins · 4 score
Grief and loss
A Truce That Is Not Peace
Miriam Toews
0 wins · 4 score
Grief and loss
Final Salute: A Story of Unfinished Lives
Jim Sheeler
0 wins · 4 score
Grief and loss
Memorial Days
Geraldine Brooks
0 wins · 4 score
Grief and loss
Men We Reaped
Jesmyn Ward
0 wins · 4 score
Grief and loss
The Day That Went Missing: A Family's Story
Richard Beard
0 wins · 4 score
Grief and loss
The Suicide Index: Putting My Father's Death in Order
Joan Wickersham
0 wins · 4 score
Grief and loss